Last Tuesday, millions of women spent the day disappointed because their significant others didn’t live up to expectations.
Never mind that in many cases their husbands or boyfriends asked them – likely several times – what it was exactly that they wanted to celebrate the holiday only to be told “I don’t care” or “Nothing.”
In other cases, women had expectations that their current “boyfriend” of six weeks would romance them like a wife of 20 years.
Sorry, sister, it is not ever going to happen.
He was likely hoping that New Year’s Eve tryst was nothing more than a one-night stand, and you’ve roped a month and a half of dating out of him – be thankful for what you’ve got.… Read the rest
I was getting this Opinion page ready when there was one more “opinion” email to open.
I clicked on it and it contained a zip file – almost always an immediate delete. But recently we had a Letter to the Editor in the ancient Word Perfect format and we also occasionally get a zip file from a reputable source.
I double clicked. It didn’t open but I didn’t delete in case it just needed some other way to open it.
So, I just kept working, moving over to see the photos on my camera card that I took at the chilly Azle’s First Pitch Saturday.… Read the rest
Another Super Bowl has come and gone. The last time my team played in it:
1. They were quarterbacked by Troy Aikman. He retired in 2001 and was elected to the Pro Football Hall of Fame in 2006.
2. I watched the game in a dark fellowship hall at Eagle Mountain Baptist Church, where I had been pastor for almost four years. I was pastor there for 17 years and have been gone for almost nine.
3. My 4-year-old son acted out the entire game in the corner of the fellowship hall and provided almost as much entertainment as the game itself.… Read the rest
Here’s a new column from J’Nell Pate.
I found a person readers might like to meet in the pages of Western history. His name was Bass Reeves, and some historians believe that he was the inspiration for the radio/TV character of the Lone Ranger. (One has to be of “a certain age” to be old enough to remember the Lone Ranger.)
Bass Reeves was born a slave in 1838 in Arkansas. His owner was a state legislator in Arkansas named William Reeves.
The latter moved with his slaves to Texas when Bass was about eight years old. He served as a water boy until he was old enough to work alongside his parents in the field.… Read the rest
Everyone has weird hobbies, not just me. So when people give shocked looks or confused responses to the latest tale of my graveyard adventures, I am always more than a little surprised.
These people – many of whom I know have weird hobbies themselves (like chasing virtual monsters around trying to capture them with their phones) – staring at me like I should be institutionalized or medicated because I drove a few hundred miles round trip on a scarce free Saturday to visit the grave of someone I’ve never met.
I can’t believe that it is considered all that weird.
Or at least I couldn’t.… Read the rest
Gov. Greg Abbott delivered his second biennial “State of the State” address to a joint session of the Texas Legislature on Jan. 31.
In exercising his prerogative as governor, Abbott presented a short list of emergency items for lawmakers to enact during the 85th regular session of the Texas Legislature:
• Improvements to Child Protective Services;
• A ban on sanctuary cities;
• Ethics reforms; and
• Approve a resolution calling for a convention of states.
Abbott said a convention of the states is needed to propose constitutional amendments in order to “fix America” because of a federal government “grown out of control.” It would take a two-thirds majority, or 34 of the 50 state legislatures, to call a convention under Article V of the United States Constitution.… Read the rest
Once again, I have collected a variety of sentences these past few months, notions that struck me as memorable or at least caught my ear.
So every motivational speaker and/or meme maker can just forward me a check when they take advantage of these pithy, sometimes groovy, yea even deep, sayings that I have so carefully cataloged by speaking them into my phone or typing them while driving down the road which you should never do.
Fleas come with the dog.
This came off a PBS special about the Trump-Clinton presidency race and illustrated how no candidate is pristine.
“No” is not a rejection but a redirection.… Read the rest
This column first appeared June 22, 1995.
Personal stories of real people who lived on the frontier have always appealed to me. I have life pretty easy with my modern appliances and cars, etc. I recently finished reading a book written by Hallie Crawford Stillwell. At age nine, she left home to teach school in Presidio; her parents did not want her to go because it was just across the Rio Grande from a town recently captured by Pancho Villa.
Her father told her that it was a “wild goose chase” to go that far from where her family lived in Alpine at that time.… Read the rest
Feb. 10 would be my grandpa’s 75th birthday. Feb. 10 will always be Grandpa’s birthday, but we lost him five years ago.
We lost him too soon – he was only 69 – but the reality is that he did not take care of his health after he retired from his 35-year career as a firefighter.
There are far too many great memories of him to recount. I cherish all of them, but the one that I am most thankful for is the fact that I was able to be with him on his final day, and was able to say goodbye one last time in person.… Read the rest
Gov. Greg Abbott has stepped up the pressure on Travis County Sheriff Sally Hernandez to participate in immigration enforcement, warning that she could lose state funding if she refuses.
In a Jan. 23 letter, Abbott urged the sheriff to reverse her policy directive “forbidding Travis County Sheriff’s Office employees from cooperating with U.S. Immigration and Customs Enforcement detainer requests.”
Failure to reverse her directive would put in jeopardy millions of dollars in funding from the governor’s office to Travis County, Abbott warned. Abbott mentioned that last year, he conditioned all Criminal Justice Grant funds from his office to counties on their enforcement of federal immigration law.… Read the rest